3 Things I Must Embrace

Living Life on Purpose

I find it truly amazing how quickly time goes by.  Recently on a vacation with my family, I was again reminded how quickly life moves on without regard to any of us.  Below is a snapshot I took of my three kids and a brief snippet from the post on Instagram:

As I reflect on this moment I am reminded of the importance of understanding who we are and the role we each must play in this journey called life.  I refuse to sit idly by and let life pass me by without investing my life in things that have eternal value.  But in order to fully embrace that idea we must have a full understanding of who we are and what we have been called to do.  Life cannot be lived accidentally!  It must be lived ON PURPOSE and in order to do that I believe there are three things we must embrace:

  1. Embrace Your Uniqueness – No one on this planet is YOU!  You have been divinely and uniquely crafted by your Creator to be YOU!  One of the areas of my life that I have had to constantly work on is understanding that I am fearfully and wonderfully made, that God created me to be ME and I have to accept that.  Many people struggle with this and refuse to understand the purpose of their life and uniqueness.  I recently launched a podcast (that I am way behind on by the way) that talks about a few things that can stop you from being who YOU were created to be.  If you want to listen to the episode you can click here (don’t worry, it is only about 9 min long): http://bit.ly/2n7o8Fc
  2. Embrace Your Destiny – I am a firm believer that each individual on this planet has a very distinct destiny, one that only you can fulfill.  The biggest trap that can stop you from fulfilling it is to think you do not have any purpose and your life has no meaning.  That is the biggest lie that has ever been believed.  Time and again the Word of God reminds us of our purpose and we must embrace that purpose, whatever it may be for you, and go after it with everything within us.
  3. Embrace Your Legacy – As I stated above, each of us must remember to invest our lives in those things that will outlive us, things that are eternal.  By doing this we are securing a legacy that will live on even when we are gone.  I want my friends and my family to see a legacy I left behind that will continue to impact others even if I am not around.  In order for that to happen I must continue to invest my time, talent and treasure in the eternal things.  The weight of this often is heavy but is worth it in the end.

I often have to sit down and look at the direction of my life and if need be make a course correction along the way.  BE INTENTIONAL ABOUT WHERE YOU ARE GOING!!  Direction is so vital in life and I want to make sure I am moving in the right direction in order to make the full impact that God has called me to make.  Take time to reflect where you are, where you are going and what you have been called to do with the one life you have been given.  Thousands may one day thank you for the investment you made!

~ Darin

A Parent’s Desire

Releasing your children to be what God called them to be!

It is hard to imagine she is graduating from high school.  Seems like yesterday she was running around the house, curly blonde hair going everywhere, singing at the top of her voice, American Girl doll in hand, but now a chapter in her life (and her parents) is closing and another one is beginning.  Today is my daughter Ashton’s Graduation Day and I am trying to wrap my mind around where the time has gone.

I believe in the heart of every parent there lies some trepidation surrounding these monumental moments that come along in the life of our children.  Have we put everything into them that we possibly could?  Are they ready to truly spread their wings and fly off into their future?  What about this, that, etc.?  Are they equipped to handle …..?

Although the questions may abound and the uncertainties cloud our minds, the fact remains: We raised them for this moment!  This is what parenting is all about – releasing our children to fulfill their God given destiny.  Nothing is more vital than this, nothing more heart-wrenching but necessary.

Ashton has more than surprised her mom and I, she has made us godly proud.  Her talents and abilities God has equipped her with never cease to amaze me.  Her hunger for God and her desire to be used in the Kingdom of God are attributes I am so thankful she possesses.  This is what God called her mother and I to do – prepare her for her future and release her to do what God is now calling her to do.  Do I like the fact that she has chosen to go to college a couple thousand miles away?  NO NO NO!!!  LOL! But I know that God has a divine plan for her life and as parents this is what we raised her to do.

Ashton, as your father, I can’t tell you enough how proud I am of you!  You truly are a blessing in so many ways.  Today is your day of celebration – GO AFTER IT!  I LOVE YOU!!



Spread the News

Living Positive in a Negative World

I’m tired of the news!

Everywhere I look I see nothing but negativity being spewed out.  It pops up on our smartphones, it comes across the air waves, it is on the front page of your newspaper (if you still read those) and it continues to be talked about when you get together with your friends or families.

The early church was under constant persecution.  You want to talk about negative!  They faced it every single day and night, 24/7/365!  Not only were they being persecuted but they were expected to proclaim Caesar as their god.  The early Christians knew that there is only one God and in all good conscience they refused to call Caesar “Lord,” so the Romans looked upon them as traitors, persecuted them, and had them put them to death.

During all if this negativity and persecution, the early church had a saying they went about telling each other.  It was a one word statement; Maranatha!  It simply meant Jesus is coming!  Even though it was negative all around them, they chose to focus on the hope of a better tomorrow.

What would happen in our homes, our families, our churches or on our jobs if we went about speaking positive, proclaiming a better tomorrow instead of griping about all the negative going on in our world.  Don’t get me wrong, I am saying to check out on reality but maybe we can change our focus and instead of always starting the day out looking at all the negativity around us, let’s focus on the good things God has done.

Having been born with something many would consider to be a negative, I have learned to accept it as a gift!  A gift that allows me to look at life a bit different and see the positive opportunities that are in front of me.  Think about it – if I had been born with two hands I would never be able to beat my friends in golf single-handedly and tell people all about it, plus I wouldn’t have any jokes:

  • I can’t learn sign language, you would only get half the message
  • Good thing I didn’t try out for the Olympic swim team since all I do is swim in circles!
  • Man it costs an arm and a leg to live in SoCal and I am already halfway invested!!  (LOL, this one even makes me laugh)

So, how do we escape all the negative around us and focus on the positive?  Well you can’t change what is being pumped out but you can change how your respond, how you view it and what comes out of your mouth.  It is all about perspective and focus.

Here are just a few things I would encourage you to do if you are having a hard time seeing anything positive in your life or situation:

  1. Change your mindset – remember that God is Great and He is still in control, no matter how bad it may appear!  We are constantly reminded in the Word of God to renew our minds.  It is where transformation takes place (Rom 12:2)
  2. Remember: It may never be as good as you want it to be but it’s never as bad as you think it is!  I think that says it all.
  3. This too shall pass!  It will not last forever and with God you have the Creator who promised He would never leave you nor forsake you!  BELIEVE IT and walk in that promise today!
  4. There is power in your words!  Speak the positive you find in every situation.  It is there, you just may have to dig for it a bit.  Instead of complaining start encouraging.  Spread the good news every where you go and watch how others will respond.  You may be surprised how things will change!

I hope when you look out the window today you see the positive of all God has in store for your life!  Go live it out, speak it and watch what happens when you focus on the positive in your world!


The Design and Danger of a Delay Part 1 & 2

We often talk about dreams.  Those inner visions that propel us forward to fulfill our divine destiny.  But what happens when they are late in arriving, even after you have worked and struggled to bring them to fruition?  How do you deal with the delay between the dream and that moment you know you have arrived at the desired outcome?  Sometimes there is so much disappointment in the delay that it may seem difficult to move forward into all God has for us.

The longer I live, the more I thank God for the DISAPPOINTMENTS in my life. Some of my WORST moments now serve as some of my BEST altars! – Raymond Woodward

Have you ever had a God inspired dream that didn’t happen as quickly as you thought it should? Yes, you had worked at it, but it seemed that many obstacles came against you. Finally, you gave up in despair and the dream lay dormant.  Think with me for a moment about the delay for the Children of Israel when they had been freed from their bondage in Egypt and were told by God they would inherit a land of promise.  Most of us are probably familiar with the story and how their fear talked them out of their future.  It is a sad story of an often experienced reality in our own lives.

As I was thinking of this I wrote down how I believe God may use delays in our own lives.  I will get to the dangers of a delay later this week, but check out these 3 things about delays and how they are a part of the design of God.

  1. God uses delays to prepare us. God uses delays to get us ready for those difficult times that we are going to face during the course of our journey. These delays are designed to fortify our faith and make us stronger.
  2. God uses delays to test us. Deut. 8:2, “God led you through the wilderness for forty years… testing you to find out how you would respond and if you would obey Him.” God uses delays to test how we will respond under pressure and to test our loyalty and obedience to Him.  Although the Israelites were responsible for their time in the wilderness, God still used it for their good.
  3. God uses delays to train us because sometimes it takes longer to get Egypt out of us than it does to get us out of Egypt (TWEET THIS).  God uses the delays to break those habits and thought patterns and train you in His way of thinking and doing things. The best thing to do when you are in God’s waiting room is be patient and let God do His work in your life.

If you find yourself in a delay and the dream is not becoming a reality in your life, I challenge you to look at the delay in a different light.  Next post we will discuss the danger of what we often face when in the midst of a delay.  Till then – KEEP MOVING FORWARD.


In our last post, we discussed the way God uses delays in our life to teach us in three major areas.  God uses delays to prepare us, test us and train us.  Today I want to look at the danger of not fully understanding why we are being faced with a delay.  If you and I are not careful we can fall into the trap of caving into the pressure of a delay, and find ourselves in some major trouble as a result.

When looking at the children of Israel, we can quickly discover four major approaches to the delay they faced.  As a result of each of these, only 2 out of the original million plus, ever made it into the land of promise.  The Israelites made these four major mistakes that cost them their promise.  When faced with delays in our own lives these 4 areas should be something we avoid.

Let's take a closer look:

  1. Don't Fear - This is the first mistake the Israelites made. There are a lot of reasons for the delays that happen in our life but this one is our own fault. God says don't be afraid. They were afraid to go forward at the Red Sea. And they were afraid to enter the Promise land because of the walled cities and the giants.  They had enough faith to move out of Egypt but they didn't have enough faith to move into the Promised Land. They were afraid.
  2. Don't Fret - Fret means worry. Don't get worried. Don't get uptight. We do that when we get into delays. We worry, get uptight, get stressed out. Worry may give you something to do, but it will only cause strength to drain from you.  When you worry you bind the hands that can help you. God responds to faith not fear. Learn to trust God in the delays you face. After all, it is God that is leading you.  God's children began to fret and it cost them dearly!
  3. Don't Faint - When you go through the delays in life, don't faint. Don't get discouraged. Don't lose heart. Don't give up. Don't throw in the proverbial towel.  This is the third thing the Israelites did and it kept them out of the promised land.  Numbers 14 tells us the story: "All the Israelites grumbled against Moses... `If only we had died in Egypt! ... We should choose a leader and go back to Egypt."  They gave up on their dream. They caved in. They had been in slavery 400 years but now because they are having a little bit of delay they want to go back to Egypt. "If only" and "go back" are phrases that are tell-tale signs you're discouraged -- that you're fainting, losing heart.
  4. Don't Forget - Psalms 103: "Bless the LORD, O my soul: and all that is within me, bless his holy name. Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits..."  During the delay, time causes us to forget many things. When there is a delay, we tend to forget our dream. We tend to forget what God had done in our life. We tend to forget God's goodness to us in the past. We tend to forget that God is with us. We tend to forget God's power. We tend to forget how important it is that we stay in God's strength and we start focusing on all our problems than on what He has done for us.  We cannot forget all God has done in our lives in order for us to move forward into the promises He has for us.

I trust that as you look at these posts you will begin to see what God has in store for you and how He desires you approach the delays that come into your life.  Remember you have a God that is for you and not against you.

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These two posts were originally written in 2013 and have been updated in their current form

Random Leadership Thoughts

Catching up....

Often I find myself writing things down or posting thoughts that never get beyond the pages of my journal or some random twitter feed.  This last week has been one of extreme challenges and while trying to process some of the lessons I felt God was trying to teach me, I wrote a couple things down that I thought I would pass along here on my blog.  These thoughts will not “blow your mind”, they are just simple thoughts during some challenging times.

For me writing things down helps me process whatever struggle I may be going through at the time, giving me a clearer perspective on the steps needed to keep moving forward.  Hopefully one of these will speak to you and help you as you attempt to overcome the challenges that might be in your path today!

Leadership Thought #1

Leadership! Trying to become a successful leader is not always something that is easy. Seldom does success come with no battle or struggle. Being a God called leader means you will experience great pain, loneliness, and misunderstanding but it also means you will experience great victories and watch as God does amazing things in the hearts and lives of those that you have been called to lead. In spite of the pain and the struggles that so often are a part of leadership, keep pressing forward – the end result is worth the struggle!

Leadership Thought #2


One thing that is certain about life and leadership is simply this – You will be wounded. It is a part of being a leader. However, how you respond and continue forward with that wound is extremely vital to your future success. Too many don’t know what to do with wounds and end up letting the wound fester and become infected instead of getting the proper treatment, letting it heal. If we are not careful we can become like a wounded animal that lashes out at others when touched or approached. You cannot allow your wound to control you for it will destroy the direction of your destiny. Everything you do will be tainted by the wound. No matter who may reach out to bring healing, if you are not willing to allow healing to come, you will resist and end up in a worse condition than what you started with. Find healing and restoration. Discover that the God of creation is still the Balm of Gilead and He can bring healing into any wounded situation no matter how bad it may be or how hurt you may feel. Wounds appear in many forms. Some of them we bring on ourselves and some come from those we trust. This is a necessary part of growth and God allows wounds to come so we will draw nearer to Him in search for healing in our lives. I love the words of Jesus that Luke wrote down: 

The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised, Lk4:18

Leadership Thought #3

I found this quote by accident (read it somewhere I think) after I listened to a friend of mine speak about impacting cities for God and it resonated with me, so I thought I would include it in this post.

Here are some random tweets I sent out scattered throughout the last few days that may be beneficial to some that are facing insurmountable obstacles in your path.  Remember you were created to move beyond the limits that others or circumstances may have placed on you!

Hope you have an awesome week ahead and you attempt great things for God in your life!


Possessing an Overcomer’s Mindset

3 Principles to Help You Overcome Anything

Have you ever noticed that when you were younger life seemed to creep by?  I can remember as a child anxiously anticipating Christmas and felt that it would never show up.  The Sears and Roebucks catalog was my daily book of the latest and greatest as I looked constantly at the toys I desperately thought I needed to survive.  Of course I started in July so that may have had something to do with it!  But seriously, the older we become the more it appears life is rapidly moving by and we are caught in this vortex of time that we can’t slow down or as some people say, stop to smell the roses.

With life moving so rapidly, are we just along for the ride or have we taken steps to glean important principles along the way that make our lives something of substance and abundance?  I would simply challenge you to consider the trajectory of your life and truly think about what you are doing with the time you have been given!  I am not saying to stop everything you have going and just become some guru of reflection that never moves off your yoga mat, I am just saying start living life by design instead of by default!

Our biggest struggle is often accepting things as they are and never truly pressing up against the obstacles in order to bring about any sort of change.  In order to overcome anything I believe there are 3 key components one must possess.  This is not rocket science yet I feel many never achieve the greatness they were designed and created for because they do not know what steps to take.  Let me help you with 3 things that I have incorporated into my life while dealing with the challenges of my birth and circumstances I have faced:

  1. YOU MUST POSSESS THE RIGHT ATTITUDE! Attitude is EVERYTHING!  I talk about this a lot but it is so very true in overcoming anything in your life.  Your attitude determines your direction!  If you possess the correct attitude concerning your obstacles, struggles and challenges, you can overcome anything that may be in your path.  It all begins and ends with attitude.
  2. YOU MUST POSSESS THE DESIRE TO ACT!  Just having the correct attitude will not suffice.  You must get up and MOVE forward!  Leaning into your biggest challenge helps you begin to push it out of the way.  Without action all you have is a desire but when you couple your attitude with action things begin to happen in ways you never dreamed possible.
  3. FINALLY, YOU MUST POSSESS APPRECIATION! If you are not appreciative of where you have come from and where you are going, you will lose the purpose for which you were created.  Never lose the ability to recognize where your strength and direction comes from and be thankful you are moving in the right direction.  If we possess an entitlement mentality, like all this is something we deserve, we will quickly miss major moments of revelation and fall off the path to our ultimate purpose.

I’m not sure where you are in the path of life or what obstacles you may be facing, but I challenged you to check your ATTITUDE, your ACTION and your APPRECIATION.  Possessing these three key attributes may help you overcome the struggles that are in your way!



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